Friday, July 16, 2010

Courtship inside marriage?

During courtship, most couples go of their way to please each other. Couples tend to always put their right foot forward to show how they love each other. They tend to please to look for the good qualities of their future partner. Then after marriage, too many couples quit working on these things and stop courting. Why is this so? May be couples got already what they wanted or just a bit slow and bored of doing things like pleasing their partner or busy on doing work to raise a family.

Whatever is the reason behind as a couple if you want to have a lasting relationship having a courtship factor is necessary! Being patient, understanding, listening are not the only keys to strengthen your marriage bond but it also includes doing things to please your spouse.

Do you still hold hands while walking like what you have done before marriage? How many times do you say I love you in a day or never already in a day unlike when you are courting when you say I love you every minute of the day? When was the last time you hugged your spouse and said thank you for a good thing that he has done? When was the last time you listened to her to the good and bad of each day or do you listen very little?

In marriage courtship must never stop! Courtship inside marriage is not only done to please your partner but it brings out of your passion to say how much you really love your partner. Sometimes marriage stops because there is no tickling factor or something that would make your relationship worth wanting more. Courtship in marriage is compared to as a vitamin of marriage. You need courtship a surprise to let your partner know that he or she is still important and deserves or worth of your effort and attention.

Marriage takes work, but it is worth it. The rewards of having a stable and sweet relationship far exceed the cost and effort that both couples are doing. Try ways to surprise your partner even for just for a while to enhance your courtship factor inside your marriage. It does not matter how simple it is or how it was prepared. In every couple putting attention, communication and giving time for each moment is always appreciated!

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