When work becomes your top priority

Being a husband and a father is not an easy job. Marriage gets even more challenging when children gets into the picture. Irritations of being a husband and a father are always there but it is on how you deal with them points to be the real issue. Every husband wants to have enough time with his wife and children but work occupies a lot of their time. One of the major goals of a man in his life is to get a good job, to provide a stable and secure support for his family. Husbands are highly appreciated for providing financial income for his family but some men are overdoing it. When work becomes your top priority chances are your time with your family is sacrificed. Of course, having a good job to provide for your family is highly admirable but overdoing it is not right.

In our early marriage, I would work on weekdays and have overtime until midnight. I will always come home at night to see that both of my children are already sleeping. On weekends, I would do sidelines like drawing engineering projects for other people. I was focused on getting additional income for my family and worst I would fail to attend important events with my family. One day, one of my children got sick and I have to stay at the hospital with my wife. I realized that work must not be my top priority. Having a balanced time working and spending quality time with my family is an important key for a strong marriage.

It is very important for a father to know his presence in his own home. The presence of a father in his home gives his family security, love and protection. Spending time especially with your children and wife does not only create a strong bond but it gives them the chance to feel and think that you are a valuable or an important part of their lives.

When work becomes your top priority, it is time to balance things. It would be better to have a happy family and being financially stable at the same time. No matter how much you are earning from your work, spending time with your wife and children is far more valuable, it is indeed PRICELESS!

Consenting and Consanguineous

“dashingclaire” posted a hub, “Consensual Incest.” She begins with the topic of first cousins.

Can sex between close relatives ever be acceptable? As a matter of history, incest was and is an acceptable practice. There’s a myth that incest is a practice of ignorant, poor, socially disadvantaged people. Not true, right here in America well known, famous individuals married their first cousins.

She later moves on to closer relations.

There are actually at least three ‘first world’ highly Catholic influenced countries – Spain, France and Portugal – that do not prosecute consenting adults for incest. These are not ‘third world’ countries. Romania is considering following the example of Spain, France and Portugal.

More countries should not only decriminalize consenting love between consanguineous couples or groups, but allow them to marry, if they so choose.

Winding down her article, she writes…

Consensual Incest is an accepted practice in today’s American society, so much so that the storyline is included in cartoons and comedies (?) on TV.

I think people understand that it happens. However, acceptance is not a word I would use to describe the current climate. There is so much bigotry towards those these people that their relationships are often used on television shock or derision, treating the lovers as freaks to be laughed at or shamed.

Our friends in the marriage equality movement need to help bring this out of the shadows. That is why we are here.

It's a choice we have to make

My family and I just finished watching a mass on television. We were touched and moved on a film clip that was shared by our favorite priest this morning. Let me share to you this story.

It was the story of a man who loves his son very dearly. His father was a bridge master. The child loves to watch trains and the people who ride in them. He loves to play outside the railways while his father does his job. One day his father pushed the lever for the bridge to go up and give way for a ship to pass by. A train was coming and the driver of the train did not notice the stop light. The boy noticed the coming train and shouted “Daddy Daddy hurry a train is coming push down the lever, the people will die push the lever so the bridge would go down.” The father did not hear his voice because he went at the back of the room. When the father went, back he noticed that there was a train coming, he searched for his son but his son was nowhere to be found. He looked outside and there was his son under the bridge trying to pull the lever manually for the bridge to go down. His son fell and was under the bridge. The train was coming and it is his choice to pull the lever or not. The father did not know what to do and he was crying he has to decide to save the life of the people inside the train or to allow his son to be crushed by the bridge. With tears on his eyes, the father pulled the lever down to save the people. He rushed and went to his son who was there lying without breath. He cried and shouted but he could not bring back his son’s life back. It was a sacrifice of one to save the lives of many people.

God sacrificed His son for us because He loved us. His son was willing to pay the price for us. Supreme sacrifice is an act of an unconditional love. In this story, it also shows us that life is a choice we have to make. Life is full of surprises and sacrifices. It goes also with marriage, sacrifices when made, as an act of love is not sacrifice but an opportunity to express the humane part inside of us. Problems, irritations and temptations are always there but it is our choice on how we should handle it. Express your love today and let your partner feel that they are loved before it is too late. If you have hurts toward your spouse or a loved one, it is the time to let go and forgive. If you feel you have offended your partner, be humble and ask forgiveness. Love is always forgiving; it covers all wrongs and covers all imperfections.

Sometimes God gives us obstacles in our lives but I believe He has a purpose for everything. He will not give us situations that we cannot bear. He heals our wounds and gives answers to our questions in His perfect time. This holy week let it be an opportunity for us to be with our loved ones and reflect on our inner selves. Please watch this full video. Click on the link below, be moved and be changed!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zktz8Fisaf4

Group Marriage

The universal definition of marriage that we have proposed is an inclusive one that accommodates diversity. Part of that inclusion is what some would call polygamy. However, while some Muslim men may marry four wives, they do so in a way in a series, and in a way in which the wives are not married to each other.

We value equality, so legally speaking, that wouldn’t be how it would work. Whenever a new person is added, all must consent and a new marriage is formed. This is to protect everyone. So a Muslim man with four wives would be a quintet marriage. The previous marriage, from a legal standpoint, dissolves and becomes the new, larger one. If one person leaves, the marriage is reformed into a smaller one.

A lovely surprise

I went home last night with a joy in my heart to see my family waiting for me. My wife and two children usually sit outside our door and waits for my arrival. My wife would say that waiting for me to arrive becomes one of their bonding moments. They would sit, sing songs and look at the moon and the stars while waiting for me. When I finally came home, my children would always run to embrace me and tell me were glad you are here daddy! Every day I would come home having something for my kids. I would bring home anything; even little candies can give them always a smile. It is a pretty thing that young children are contented even on the most little things especially if it comes from their father.

My wife would usually kiss me and smile looking at my kids enjoy the food that I have bought them. That night I gave my wife a lovely surprise. I bought her a pasta dish and a drink that happens to be her favorite. She was surprised because I do not usually do that. She asked me why there is an occasion or have you done something wrong? I said, “No it’s just one of my ways to say thank you for being a good wife and a nice mother.” My wife smiled and said thank you for making her day beautiful.

Love always communicates through emotions. Try to understand your partners love language. If you cannot think of a lovely surprise then think of the things that you have done before she said yes to marry you. Did you often give her flowers, letters or a simple text message can make her happy?

We should learn to appreciate our partners and make them feel that they are a special part of our lives. Communication does not always mean to be verbal. Your partner will love you best if you communicate with simple gestures of caring and thoughtfulness. As what I always say, “Courtship must not end after marriage it should remain in a relationship, it is a lifetime process.”

Partners for a lifetime

For years, my wife has a heart ailment and cared a little about exercise. She would rather do household chores or read a book than doing an exercise. I would buy video tapes and let her watch health programs but it seems it has no effect on her. I would always ask her a question “why are you not listening every time I talk about your health problem?” My wife would always tell me “I’m busy taking care of you and our children. I have no time for those exercises”.

My wife had a heart attack recently and luckily, I was home to comfort her. Being with my wife and doing the household chores and taking care of our children gave me the answers to my question. My wife was so busy taking care of us and no one was taking care of her. She would always be busy doing things for us and she forgot herself. She devoted almost all her time to show her love for us but neglecting her needs in the end.

After a week, I talked to my wife and let her do the talking I was there just to listen. My wife said, “I can be with the Lord anytime and showing my love for you is the least thing that I can do.”I told her “You can show your love to us by taking care of us but please don’t overdo it! Please take time to relax and give time for yourself. When you are hurt or sick, your children and I will suffer in the end. We love you, being with us and seeing you healthy and well will give us more happiness rather than doing chores on a hard way. So please take care of yourself not just for me but also as a wife and a mother.” Now, to prove that we are partners for a lifetime and in all things doing exercise with the whole family became one of our happy bonding moments.

I do not want to sound dramatic but I do not care how people would respond but I love my wife dearly and I would do anything for her. I am always praying for her health and I know God heals; He has a reason and a time for everything. If you are experiencing the same and you often pray for healing but nothing happens, do not stop and do not be dismayed. Pray for your partner’s health and leave it in God’s hands. Always remember your bond in your marriage “In sickness and in health till death do us part.”Be true to your bond and be partners for a lifetime!

Is a Positive Portrayal Too Much to Ask?

The Georgetown Voice recently published and interview by Chris Heller with South Korean film director Bong Joon-ho, about his latest movie, “Mother”, which “follows one woman’s struggle to prove her mentally-challenged son’s innocence after he is accused of murder.”

Q. Mother has strong incestuous undertones, but the exact nature of the mother-son relationship is never made explicit. How did you decide where to draw the line between what is shown and what must be inferred?

A. I did want to make the audience guess whether or not the two were crossing the line, but more importantly, I wanted to focus on the fact that both the mother and the son are incapable of having normal sexual relations.

It would be nice to see a portrayal of a happy consanguineous couple with a healthy relationship, neither of whom is suspected of doing terrible things. Well, I guess there are plenty in erotica, but I’m talking cinema that isn’t essentially erotica.

I do realize that drama involves conflict, so that conflict is often going to be present in the protagonist’s love interest. But it is possible to have a film with a positive example. The relationship can be a side story. Or, dramatic gold can be mined by depicting a couple enduring all of the obstacles - mostly involving ignorance and jealousy from others - that a happy consanguineous couple (or triad) may deal with.

The triad of which I write in this blog consists of attractive, well-adjusted people who don’t hurt anyone, pay their taxes, and can have “normal” sexual relations. They happen to prefer their extraordinary relationship above others.

Positive portrayals are needed to advance social justice. So how about throwing a bone to people who are struggling with hostility?

The beauty inside her

My eldest child just graduated from pre-school last week and she was the first in her class. Before we went to her graduation ceremony, my child would be a lot of concerned about the way she looks. She would always ask, “Daddy am I beautiful, honestly do I look good?” I would smile back and say, “You’re the most beautiful girl in my life and you will always be.” At her young age, telling her that she is beautiful always brings a twinkle to her eyes.

This attitude of a woman I tell you does not change from her age. A young or an older woman loves to hear that she is beautiful especially from her husband. Your love can literally make your wife beautiful. How could you expect your wife to be beautiful if she always hear rude words and treats her in an ill-mannered way? Husbands should learn to appreciate the love and service that a wife gives. She does not ask for money in return of her efforts so at least a little attention from a husband will not matter much. Your wife is like a flower that needs water to grow and you as a man of her life are the water that would nourish and give her a reason to grow beautiful. Without your love and attention, your wife can dry up and loose the beauty inside her.

Your wife is beautiful, regardless what her age is. I know it personally because man got attracted first to the physical attributes of a woman and character comes at the latter part. You married her because there is beauty inside her in some way. If there, have been hurts in the past that hinders you in looking at the beauty of your wife inside and out, forgive and try to focus on the positives. Stop focusing on her negative attitudes and start to look at the positive things that your wife has.

If you like to see the beauty inside her it is up to you! Start now by appreciating what she is doing, saying I love you or a smile every time you go home even though you’re tired at work, hugging her and saying I thank God that He has given me a wonderful wife and a secret don’t stop courting your wife. Courtship must not stop after marriage it should be a lifetime process. Do this and your wife would be beautiful and glowing inside and out I guarantee that!

Love moves in mysterious ways

I just watched a television drama last night MMK18 in our favorite movie station. Watching our favorite shows is one of our bonding moments and rarely will you find both of us in tears. I am a man but I easily get hooked into the story if it is about family issues. The story moved both of us and touched our hearts. Let me just give you a summary of the story.

The story was focused on the story of a young woman who went through the challenges of life being a deaf person. She had an angelic voice and she loves to sing and play the piano. In her early years, she would join choirs and singing was her passion in life. She had this flu which she did not consult her doctor because of financial problems. After a while, she started not to hear her classmates and neighborhood voices. She consulted the doctor and she was not sick of an ordinary flu it was a viral infection that damaged her ears. One of her doctor recommendation is to stay away from music and loud tunes. She was very depressed then because she could not play the piano anymore and attend her choir.

To cut the story short in her depression she met a person who is also into singing in a choir and playing the piano. They had a relationship regardless of what had happened. Love moves in mysterious ways and love moves over the horizons indeed. She could not accept him at first because she could not believe a person loving her even though she is deaf. The person said, “Love comes from the heart not from your ears and whatever the problem is what’s important is my love for you.”In her depression, the person turned to be her inspiration to sing again and play the piano from her heart. Moreover, even though she could not hear she learned to look at the positives of life and to let her story inspire other people.

Love moves in mysterious ways and God has a way for everything. In marriage, love covers wounds and imperfections. In marriage or in any relationship when sacrifices are made as an act of love it is not counted as a sacrifice but an opportunity to let go of the humane part in us. Like in the story, love covers all imperfections and it includes accepting your spouse strengths and weaknesses.

“Marriage is great when two people enter into it with a joint dedication to keep it strong no matter what!” I believe God destined people to be with each other regardless of whatever happened because He has a purpose and a reason for everything. How about you when was the last time you hugged your partner and said, “I love you” no matter what?

Treat her right!

Hello, it is evening here in our country and I am here sitting trying to relax and recall the activities of this day. I went home tired, hungry and a bit rude to my wife. I said, “Where’s the spoon, fork and will you give me a glass of water, I’m terribly hungry will you give it fast”. My children followed me and demanded the same things to my wife. Focused on my own exhausted day, without knowing I offended my wife. My wife talked to me and said, “Will you pls. be kind enough I am your wife and a mother I am not your waitress. Yes, I can give you all my service because I love you but please don’t try again to rush me in doing things pls. treat me right.” My wife and I talked and settled things right there. I assured her that I love her and I did not mean to hurt her. It was not just an eye opener for me it was an eyes wide shut experience for me.

Let us be honest friends if you did not for once have done this to your wife probably your just denying it! I read a book before about women attitudes to their spouse and I would like to tell you women do not usually express their emotions to their husbands. Your wife does not want to be your mother that sets rules for you to follow. It will surely give her grounds to disrespect you. Your wife does not want to be your little sister that follows your commands like a big brother or worst your wife does not want to be your maid that follows your every command. It will make her feel that you have lost love for her.

“My friends learn to appreciate your wife. Treat her right and I guarantee you she will be your greatest treasure for a lifetime! “

There’s a Difference Between Love and Abuse

I prefer using the word consanguineous rather than incestuous, because the word incest has been given such a negative connotation. It is frequently lumped together with child rape and molestation.

Rape, assault, and molestation are and should be crimes, as they are perpetrated against someone who doesn’t or is unable to consent to being sexually touched. But while some rape is incestuous, not all incest is rape or molestation. Consensual incest is an expression of love, and it should not be a crime. Too many people say “incest” when they really mean rape by a family member. I wish they wouldn’t. Call it rape. Call it abuse.

And let's remember that there are people in nonconsanguineous relationships who experience abuse and domestic violence. The issue should not be consanguinity - it should be consenting love vs. coerced abuse.

If you have been attacked, assaulted, raped, or molested, please know that you are not alone and there is help. You should not be ashamed. Your attacker should be ashamed, and convicted, whether a family member, a stranger, or someone between.

One of the groups that can help is RAINN - Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network. Yes, the name does nothing to remove the negative connotation from “incest,” but they can still be helpful.

Another resource is Survivors of Incest Anonymous. Again, I wish the name was different, but I’m just glad there is help for anyone who was raped or molested by a family member.

Perhaps you have been experiencing some attraction to a family member, especially one you were previously separated from for a long time. Or, perhaps you aren’t but know of a family member who is feeling that way towards you. Whether those feelings are wanted, unwanted, or you’re not quite sure, you can find some support, sympathy, and advice at the GSA website.

But if you have, or are, experiencing attraction and love with a consenting family member, don’t let anyone put you down or interfere with your happiness. While we have a ways to go to reach equality under the law, consanguineous love is a beautiful thing. In a world with abuse and bitter family rifts and estrangement, we should never discourage loving intimacy.

In-laws and partner relationship

My in-laws have just visited us a couple of weeks ago and I would say I am blessed to have them as my second parents. They are both born-again Christians and at first it was an issue for them because I am a Catholic and they would prefer their child to be married to a born again Christian. It was not because of my religion I presumed it’s just they want their daughter to marry a deserving man!”However, as years go by they accepted me in their family and they treated me as one of their own child! I’m more than glad and honored to be a part of their family!”

Your in-laws and partner relationship can be a hypersensitive case. Accepting and embracing a new person in their family cannot be that easy. This issue is but normal so do not expect your spouse to have an established bonding immediately. The truth is it will be affected primarily on you, on how you treat your spouse in front of them! Here are a few reminders:

 Do you say good things about your spouse in front of them or do you always complain about the negative attitudes of your spouse? – Building the personality of your other half in their minds will depend practically on you. When you always say cruel things about your spouse, they will obviously believe you and put into conclusion that you have made the wrong decision of marrying your partner. When you always say good things, about how your spouse takes good care or loves you then your family members will think that your partner is a valuable person, an asset that deserves their acceptance, love and good treatment. However, of course always show good treatment because you really love your spouse and not just to get their approval!

Try to resolve your problems within your home. If possible, do not let them know about your personal problems except of course when endangering your life is the issue. Going to the counsel of your family every time a petty problem arises will create more commotions and will not solve the problem.

Now, what to do about your in-laws and partner relationship?

•Encourage your partner to share their feelings towards your family members. If he or she reveals of something take time to listen, cover it with prayer, and ask God to get in the middle of the situation.

•Maintain a personal contact with your in-laws and always go to family member’s party with your partner.

•Try at least to be with her and introduce to other family members do not leave her in a corner to give your spouse a chance to feel alienated or out of placed.

•Bond with your in-laws and find their interest. If your in-laws are into sports then invite them to recreational events like bowling, playing tennis, golf or any sport that are of interest to them.

•Do not expect instant bonding and for your family to accept your spouse with open arms. It takes lot of time and effort on everybody’s part!

Work frustrations

Hi Friends! Have you ever talked to your spouse in an impolite or bad-mannered way? Are you the type that comes home from work tired and just needs to get your stress out and end up being angry and irritated?

My wife has been quite used to these situations and what she does to lower down my anger really works. In our early marriage, I would go home from work tired and angry towards my boss or colleagues, I often make my family my outlet of anger. My wife gives me time to go up to our room, rest for a while and enjoy the calmness and quiet atmosphere. When confrontation heats up my wife would usually correct me immediately and says” Ooops this isn’t good you’re developing your anger to me which is wrong I am not an enemy it’s ok to tell me about what’s causing your anger, did something happened in your office that bothered you?” Then I would smile your right and we would sit down and try to solve things out or just to let her hear of my stressful day at work, and believe me it will go out just fine.

Marriage must be a home of happiness and joy.It is hard with one of the parties being cruel and full of frustrations.Do not make your marriage a dumping ground for your work frustrations.Saying inhumane things can also be sort out as a means of brutality and harassment.Being battered can also be classified verbally and not only physically. A man usually gives comfort to his family but a rude man can be terrifying and brings fear to his wife and children. A man’s voice has the power to build a home, generate a happy marriage or has the power to ruin and destroy a home.

Here is a reminder: As a husband who works and supports our family you must have time to do things that entertain you like a simple chat or seeing the picture of your friends in the internet perhaps or walking in the park alone. Set a time for rest and enjoyment like bowling or doing things that will refresh you and cast your work frustrations.

How you can earn your spouse trust?

Here are some points I would share to you to gain the trust of your spouse:

First, be consistently honest. Being truthful means keeping your word. If you say, I will be having overtime in my work, and then do so. Do not tell your spouse I will be in our office doing work and when your spouse calls your office phone, you are not there. These are the usual scenes when your spouse starts to have disturbing things in her mind! Be truthful say where will you be going and who will be your companions. If you want your mate to be true to you then do not do otherwise.

Second, be careful avoid doing things that can violate their trust. Adultery is the no. 1 enemy of trust. Researchers say that if spouses had been cheated once, it changes him or her forever! Be careful of your actions specially if he or she sees your actions around other women or men that will make them feel insecure.

Third, Love each other because it is a joy for both of you and not just as a mere obligation or duty of being a couple. Remember marriage is not just a bond done in a piece of paper it is done in front of God and trusted people who have witnessed your love for each other.

Fourth, Seek God’s help. Be prayerfully patient about this issue in marriage. As what they say, “Trust is broken quickly but takes time to restore”.

Freedom Map

Here is a map that is helpful showing which places in the world are more progressive and which are more oppressive when it comes to consanguineous love.

You’ll notice that in the USA, Rhode Island is the most accepting, or at perhaps least oppressive by application of law, followed by New Jersey, then Ohio, and then Illinois. None of these states will allow sibling or parent-adult child marriage, however.

Earning your spouse trust

Have you ever felt that your spouse does not trust you? With that caring man or that beautiful gorgeous woman at work?

If the answer is yes, then I am sure it is not because your spouse do not love or trust you but because of certain experiences in the past or stories from parents or colleagues. Alternatively, something you might have done before that lost her trust or a fearful experience that has happened when she trusted someone. There is a great issue in marriage when it comes to trust or being faithful to one’s spouse. The closeness of a couple blooms if faithfulness and trust are the solid rock of your marriage. Building trust is not easy at all, it is not built over a day but it is always possible!

Temptation is everywhere today and as a man we have to accept that were fools if sometimes one-way or the other have been attracted to some beautiful girls. The Question is not on how many temptations comes but on how we treat and on how we handle them points out to be the real issue!

Why I Started This Blog

Meet Melissa. No, I’m not putting up her picture, because until there is change, she faces too much persecution. But imagine a bright, beautiful, healthy, kind young woman who has matured from a fairly happy childhood. She has received a Sociology degree from a top university and is working on her Masters in addition to having started her career.

A couple of years ago, Melissa met an older woman - older to her, anyway - named Linda and felt an instant connection with her. It turns out the feeling was mutual. They found that they were attracted to each other in many ways, including physically – after all, both Linda and Melissa are what most people would consider attractive.

They would have married if they could, but they can’t. It isn’t because they are both women. Women can marry each other in several places in the United States. It is because Linda is Melissa’s biological mother, and the law will not allow them to marry.

Melissa was raised mainly by her paternal grandparents, who fought for custody of Melissa. At the time, Linda was still a teenager, and from very modest means, while Melissa’s paternal grandparents were very well off and had excellent legal representation, and to be fair, were capable of providing Melissa with an intact, stable home with two parents.

Melissa’s father, tragically, died young.

But this isn’t the whole story. Linda had previously given birth by the same father, her teenaged sweetheart. When Linda’s mother found out she was impregnated at age 15, she sent Linda away from her sweetheart to be with relatives in another state. Linda’s sweetheart was kept in the dark about her pregnancy. He did not know where she was, or that she gave birth to a healthy baby boy, Matthew, who was put up for adoption.

At 18, Linda, as a legal adult, reunited with her sweetheart, and that is when she got pregnant by him a second time.

Things got tumultuous.

After the dust settled, Linda had lost her sweetheart to death and Melissa to her sweetheart’s parents. Linda had a tough time moving forward.

But she did.

She became an accomplished professional and a good citizen, contributing to her community. She attracted lots of romantic interest, and discovered that she was not only attracted to men. But she never quite found someone with whom she wanted to share the rest of her life, until Melissa came back into her life.

Linda and Melissa found that one of the things they have in common is their attraction to both men and women. Since they had already fallen in love with each other despite legal and social discouragements, it wasn’t too surprising that when Matthew made contact with Linda, his birth mother, and met both her and Melissa, that they all fell in love with each other. They want to share their life together.

It is possible that Linda, Melissa, and Matthew are experiencing what has been described as Genetic Sexual Attraction (GSA). Whatever labels are applied to it, they describe - and their behavior demonstrates – a deep, warm, caring, affectionate love that goes beyond public approved mother-child or sibling relationships.

Because of bigotry in law, in social circles, and elsewhere, they are not free to be open in their love for each other; they do not reveal the true level and nature of their connection to each other to more than a handful of people, but they hope that not only will the law allow them to openly express their true love, but that they will be able to marry.

Those of us who do know them know that they are in love and deserve marriage equality. They should be able to share a home with all of the legalities of marriage, and all of the social support that anybody else gets when they marry. Can we count on your support?

(Names have been changed to protect these consenting, taxpaying adults from oppression, harassment, prejudice, and bigotry.)

A woman in your life

My friends just e-mailed me this poem this morning. It will inspire and disturb you if you are in a relationship or a married man. Therefore, it will be nice if you can read it all for you to be inspired and learn to appreciate the woman in your life. God bless you!

Tomorrow you may marry a woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER" I hope you will do.....

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"Marriage takes two to tango"

“Marriage takes two to tango!" This quote most probably is the frequently used quotes about marriage. It did not say one it says two, which means both of the couple, must do everything to have their marriage work. Many couples lead to broken homes because each of the couples insists that it is one’s fault or the other. Having lack of communication and letting anger and bitterness sink in is the core of broken relationships!

My wife and I have been married for 10 years and until now; experiencing fights and irritations have been normal day-to-day happenings for us. There are times when our love for each other is strong and passionate. However, there are times when you begin to ask your love for your spouse or your spouse love for you. Increasing and doing same things repeatedly in our relationship becomes tiring and boring. The old courtship romance in our marriage was gone; our love was like a candle that slowly melts its wax, and losses light!

If you are on this stage it is normal, every couple is undergoing what we call marriage blues! Set a time for you and your wife to sit and talk about these differences without having to tone up voices and kids playing around. You can talk when your kids are not around or when the kids are sleeping. Speak to each other as a point to inform your negative feelings about a certain issue remember both of you are created not in the same way so each of you need to adjust and let’s face it guys we are people no one is perfect.

One of the secrets I do is to always hug my wife and tell her that I love her! This simple touch gestures believe me can regenerate your love communication and romance. Being verbal saying thank you and expressing appreciation, as a simple the food you cooked was great will surely give your wife a smile! Make her feel important, most woman love to hear pleasant words, a verbal appreciation for their work or positive attitude or a simple I love you text message can rekindle the courtship romance in your marriage. Of course, this method will work in both ways. Each spouse needs to learn how to bring back the love language. If you cannot think of something then go back to the first cherished day you met your wife. The ways you did when you courted her and how did you get her to say yes to marry you.

Seeing my kids growing and my wife and I growing old I couldn’t think of being separated just because of this irritations or this have you lost this lovely feeling issues. I’d rather stooped down my pride, talk our differences and patch up things with my wife, have quality time with my kids rather than being separated and having my own way and to see my children suffer in the long run!

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Do not give your marriage to chance!

Good day! I just finished looking at our wedding album and it brings back memories. When my wife and I got married just as every couple, we had many expectations. We planned that our marriage will always be happy and a total success. However, on our early marriage things did not turn out as we expected to be. There have been irritations, fights and misunderstandings.

My wife would often complain on my quality and quantity time for my family. I focused more on my work after marriage to increase our income, but I realized that too much work gradually decreased my time and attention to my family. My work is from 8-5pm but I will do overtime and go home past midnight. On weekends, I would have sidelines and missed important occasions of my family because of work. If I were home, I would sit in front of my computer and continue my unfinished office work. Financially we were going ok but my relationship with my wife and children suffered.

It was not until then my wife confronted me about this matter in tears. She said that she appreciated all what I was doing in my work to give them more than enough of what they need financially but they needed more of my time. She said that they love me and she wants me especially my kids to play and bond with them. I realized that it is not bad to work but do not overdo it! Yes, it is every man’s desire to have a good work and to give more than enough income to his family because admit it, it adds up to our identity. We should balance our time for work and our time for our family.

Couples have to accept reality in their marriage. Chances are there will be misunderstandings and irritations. Chances are there will be failures and unexpected problems that will arise. Chances are there will be people hurting and will be meddling in your marriage. Chances are there will be temptations on the way. Most couples do not end up long in their relationship because they give up adjusting and resolving these chances in marriage. They pack up, refused to handle the situation and end up in separate ways. However, a lasting marriage can be achieved if each couple can withstand disappointments and is willing to adjust to changes. Each couple must learn to accept the reality of marriage and support each other to their growth as a couple. All of us are created differently, all of us have flaws and chances are differences create disappointments. All of us must be prepared to change and adjust to have a lasting marriage. Do not give your marriage to chance! Chances are a reality!