Work frustrations

Hi Friends! Have you ever talked to your spouse in an impolite or bad-mannered way? Are you the type that comes home from work tired and just needs to get your stress out and end up being angry and irritated?

My wife has been quite used to these situations and what she does to lower down my anger really works. In our early marriage, I would go home from work tired and angry towards my boss or colleagues, I often make my family my outlet of anger. My wife gives me time to go up to our room, rest for a while and enjoy the calmness and quiet atmosphere. When confrontation heats up my wife would usually correct me immediately and says” Ooops this isn’t good you’re developing your anger to me which is wrong I am not an enemy it’s ok to tell me about what’s causing your anger, did something happened in your office that bothered you?” Then I would smile your right and we would sit down and try to solve things out or just to let her hear of my stressful day at work, and believe me it will go out just fine.

Marriage must be a home of happiness and joy.It is hard with one of the parties being cruel and full of frustrations.Do not make your marriage a dumping ground for your work frustrations.Saying inhumane things can also be sort out as a means of brutality and harassment.Being battered can also be classified verbally and not only physically. A man usually gives comfort to his family but a rude man can be terrifying and brings fear to his wife and children. A man’s voice has the power to build a home, generate a happy marriage or has the power to ruin and destroy a home.

Here is a reminder: As a husband who works and supports our family you must have time to do things that entertain you like a simple chat or seeing the picture of your friends in the internet perhaps or walking in the park alone. Set a time for rest and enjoyment like bowling or doing things that will refresh you and cast your work frustrations.